So I was watching my little boy play with blocks today. I asked him to bring the blocks in my room so I could get ready and still talk with him. He sat right by the door building towers, destroying them, and building again. The thought crossed my mind of, 'Is it sad I'm making him play with just a few blocks so I can get ready?' which then led to the thought, 'No, he is happy to play with blocks. Kids are happy creatures. People say about them that they are resilient, they can bounce back!' But people only say that about kids-why don't they say that about adults?
When Tav asks for a cookie and I say no, he throws a tantrum until he gets distracted by something else. If I ask for something and don't get it, I brood or mope or feel sorry for myself. And even when I get distracted, I always remember that I didn't get what I wanted. Tav doesn't remember that he wanted that cookie because it doesn't matter to him anymore. As my thoughts kept going, I felt like I got a little glimpse of what Heavenly Father sees all the time, and why we are taught to be child-like.
When Heavenly Father doesn't give me my cookie before dinner, its because He knows that dinner is more important than the cookie. Of course the cookie isn't bad for my little boy, but the better thing is for him to eat dinner. He obviously doesn't need the cookie, which is proved 5 minutes later when he has forgotten the cookie and is interested in something else. And then when dinner time rolls around, he is excited for dinner and doesn't even think about the cookie.
This very small and simple lesson Heavenly Father shared with me, reminds me how true the gospel is - how happy I am to have it in my life - how thankful I am for my little boy - and how blessed I am that God shared this with me.
Saturday, February 1, 2014
Monday, July 8, 2013
1 year, 3 months, 2 weeks, & 4 days
Finally updated the 'family blog' so I figured I'd better update all the growing my little boy has done too!
So as of today, here is a run down on the current Tav:
So as of today, here is a run down on the current Tav:
- temper tantrums (as in fall to the floor as dead weight and bellow the "end of my life" moan)
- has about 14 teeth, 6 on top (4 in the front and 2 molars) and 8 on the bottom (4 in the front, 2 molars, and some stuff in between)
- talks a lot but does use the English language as we know it (tck-tck-tck, da-da-da, mommm, lots of other random sounds that we aren't sure where or how he learned them)
- love you to read to him (will bring the book to you, if you don't catch it fast enough he will thrust it upon your face---repeatedly)
- love toy cars (and will wave to any life-sized one that drives by)
- climbs into his highchair (could probably climb out too, but we are ready to test that yet)
- decided that he could feed himself with a spoon and bowl of whatever now
- Jake and the Never Land Pirates! 'nough said
- loves to join Mom at her BYU yoga class (good thing the teacher(s) think he's cute too)
- learned how to "feed the dog" from his highchair (did I mention we really want one now)
- loves to run
- sometimes says: "Tavish", "Mom", "Dad", for sure understands those three plus: "Matey/Kitty", "Grandma/Grandpa", "No", "Food", "Drink"
- can sign: "More", "Food", and "Finished/All Done/All Gone"
I guess I can't really say you are more caught up than before, but at least now its on record!
Saturday, April 20, 2013
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